Before you look to blame another, look within yourself,
for at some point you have not listened to your own instincts.
Too often we forget to trust our own instincts...ignoring what we know is right...while blaming another for our unhappiness. Everyone has instincts, but not everyone listens to them.
When things aren't going right in life, it's easiest to place blame on someone else, instead of looking within ourselves as to why we are unsatisified. I think we're scared to listen to our own instincts, because the answer may not be what we want, but it's what's right nonetheless.
So, do yourself a favor,
stop and take a minute to listen to what's deep inside...
because even though you may not be able to logically understand it,
you know more than you could ever realize.